On-line dating and inhibited people
People without hang-ups occur very rarely nowadays. Our modern world is dangerous and hostile to the majority of people. Severe environment can lead to depression and different types of nervous breakdowns. Many people, especially young withdraw into themselves and experience big problems in communication and interaction with other people. Their rejection of the world aggravates their state, because it is not natural for a person to go into his/her shell, as all men are social beings.
Lack of communication can often lead to psychic anxiety and mental insanity. A person can’t but communicate with other people. It may seem that there is no way out of this situation. But for scientific progress and innovations in the sphere of information technologies, things should have looked very black indeed.
How can the internet help inhibited people to overcome their shyness and help them to find new friends? Sociable, talkative and uninhibited people consider the internet to be an additional way of communication and don’t think much of its advantages. They use chat rooms as a communication facility and underrate it in respect of reserved persons. No one thinks about people with hang-ups, but they want to have friends, just as all other people, but they experience difficulties in communication. The emergence of virtual means of communication is a real salvation for these people. They can communicate easily with like-minded persons and find new friends. They don’t have to apply much effort to overcome their inhibitions. Communicating via the internet they simply pass over them.
Hang-ups are usually revealed when people communicate in person. People are often ashamed of their appearance, voice, complexion, etc. This psychological barrier prevents them from talking naturally, from building sensible sentences and so on. It is inability to talk properly that prevents a person from finding friends and not his/her appearance. All fears and phobias are eliminated when you communicate by means of chat rooms.
The internet has brought a new era together with its emergence, and it gives all people a chance to be involved into the social life, mix with peers and friends according to one’s interests.